The cowgirl sex move is fast becoming pretty common among couples. It is great for a lot of reasons, some of which are that it gives the woman a chance to touch herself, and gives the man an opportunity to truly enjoy the view. Besides, most men will tell you it is a ‘safe’ choice in the sense that they are less likely to orgasm as soon and they get to actually relax and have fun.
The cowgirl move takes some getting used to since you will need to take some time to find a rhythm and angle that works for you and your man.
The Motion
Forward and Backwards: This is best if you would like your clit stimulated while you ride. You straddle him and simply ride forwards and backwards as your clit grinds against him.
Bounce on it: Most men love it as it looks like a reverse of penile thrusts during missionary. You move in an up and down motion whilst the penis is in you. This usually requires a little more effort and you put your thigh muscles to good use.
‘Round it goes: Keeping his penis in you, make a circular move against him. You get the perk of grinding against him, but it gives you a thrilling angle.
The spirit
The best way to enjoy this move is to be self-confident. Your goods are out there for your man to see. You need to feel good about your body so you can get your moves down. Do not overthink it, and just as it is with dancing, let it flow. Your man is having a blast watching you move, so do not be afraid to give him a show.
Your man
Just because you are in the driver’s seat does not mean your man should just lie there. Have him meet your movement and feed off his thrusts. He can also hold you by your waist while he does the thrusting for a while.
The perks
No other position gives you the opportunity for self-exploration like The Cowgirl move. So have some fun with it. Touch yourself or get him to touch you. Your boobs, tummy and clit are ready and waiting. You can double, triple or quadruple your pleasure if you both use your hands as you ride you and your man to orgasmic bliss.
Final note
Remember, experimentation is the ultimate tip to enjoy any sex move. So, don’t be shy, try all angles and speed. When you find what works, keep going until you get to your ‘destination.’
